It seems that everyone has a social media account these days, whether young or old. It’s also expected that couples, especially married ones, are friends with each other on Facebook and other social media, right?
Well, not everyone shares the same sentiments. One woman recently went viral for her surprising and rather effective reason for unfriending her husband. Her post quickly went viral, much to her surprise.
Sharing my reason why I unfriended my husband on Facebook.
Why? Sabi nga nila “What you don’t know won’t hurt you”. Sometimes men are insensitive, One time nung friend pa kami sa facebook I used to tag him sa almost everything na I think useful and informative but to tell you wala ni isa sa tinag ko ang binasa niya.
Even sweet wall post or tagged family photos dedma siya. You know What hurt my feelings the most, kapag sa post ng iba or sa non-sense na bagay kahit hindi siya nakatag pustahan makikita mo may comment siya #Coolkid. Hahaha!
Feeling niya nakakairita yung mga tinatag ko sakanya. (Which is true, ngayon ko lang narealize)
What do you think happened after she unfriended him? Did they fight? Hmmmmm. You’ll be surprised, though…
That’s why I decided to unfriend him, kaloka inabot ata ng ilang linggo bago niya narealized d na kami friend! Since then unconsciously I stopped tagging him, I stopped seeing his post and lastly d ko nakikita mga comment niya hahahahaha. Ang gaan sa feelings!
And narealize ko sobrang unhealthy ng Social Media sa magpartner kailangan scripted dahil alam mong may ibang nakakabasa. Yung tipong pag nag i love you ka, kailangan may mag i love you too. Ganon kastressful haha!
Whew! She’s actually right! We often aim to be ‘perfect’ on social media that we end up sharing ‘scripted’ posts.
But after she unfriended her husband on Facebook, the two had a better relationship. Of course, her husband wanted her to add him back but she refused, saying it is better if they talk in person rather than chat up on social media.
Ngayon na we are no longer connected sa social media. We started to have long conversation at home. Yung gsto niya i-tag sakin sinasabi na niya sakin personally. Kahit na nakatira kami in one roof at almost 24/7 magkasama meron paring mga bagay na hindi mo alam kaya mas nagkaron tuloy kami ng mga bagay na mapagkekwentuhan personally.
At higit sa lahat WALA NA KAMING PAKIALAMANAN ng posts kagaya neto.
To cut the story short, mas naging intimate yung relationship namin kasi parang may namimiss kami lagi sa isa’t isa kahit magkasama na kami sa iisang bubong.
LOL. Go, girl!
After the post went viral, she made a follow up post that warned other ladies against unfriending their significant others – sometimes it won’t work in the same way as hers did, actually.
…if you want a happier, non-toxic and stress free life wag mag invest ng emotion and time sa social media, mas masarap padin yumakap ng personal kesa sa emoji at GIF. Mas mainit pdin yung totoong halik kesa sa paselfie selfie lang.
At higit sa lahat mas masarap maramdaman ang pagmamahal pag totoo at hindi scripted. (At walang matang mapanghusga na nakikistalk na nga lng sa fb ng may fb ichichismiss kapa)
P.s: Hindi ko kinakahiya na dinedma ako ng asawa ko. Unfriended naman siya sakin hahaha
P.p.s: At kayo mga boyfriend/asawa hindi dahil may privacy kayo e oover the bakod nadin kayo. Always remember ang babae kahit blocked mo pa yan malalaman at malalaman niya yan.
P.p.p.s: Kaya kung ako sayo kung naiisip mo gumawa ng kalokohan think twice kung worth it ba isugal kung anong meron ka na.
Do you agree with this girl? Definitely!
Source: Nicole Joanne Meilat / Facebook