Brokenhearted Guy Pens Tear-Jerking Goodbye Letter to Girlfriend Who Died Unexpectedly

Everyone knows how difficult it can be to cope with the loss of a loved one, especially of someone who died too young and too soon at an unexpected manner, such as an accident. It’s already hard to accept the death of someone who got sick for months even years but it’s harder when the death comes all of a sudden.

So, we can understand the pain that Danbar Ardales must be feeling right now after the loss of his girlfriend, Haidee Badidles. On the eve of her funeral, he wrote a tear-jerking goodbye letter as a way of coping with what he was feeling.

Photo credit: Danbar Ardales / Facebook

While he didn’t mention the cause of her death in this post and in previous posts when he called on friends to say prayers for Haidee, who was in ICU at the time, a number of people commented that she had fallen off the double deck and suffered severe trauma on her brain.

Cause of death: Nahulog daw sya sa double deck that cause her brain to have a severe trauma 🙁 – ctto

Posted by Michelle Maye Tenorio on Wednesday, February 28, 2018

Danbar was deeply devastated over her death. He penned the letter to Haidee, recalling the good times they spent together, saying that he had always loved the times they spent together and how he misses her so much each time she goes to school.

But now that she’s gone forever, not just out for some hours because she’s in school, he couldn’t imagine how he could ever cope. He draws strength from their memories together, saying he would hold on to those wonderful moments; although he feels that the best memories are also the most painful to recall.

Photo credit: Danbar Ardales / Facebook

Read his heartbreaking farewell letter. Warning: Get your tissues ready…

This is our first kita after nung nagkakilala tayo. Eto na rin ung araw na nagsimulang magbago ung takbo nang buhay ko. Kada araw na dumadating nagiging ikaw ung mundo ko. Nasanay na ako na pagkagising ko sa umaga mukha mo agad nakikita ko. hanggang pag pikit ko ikaw pa din katabi ko. hangang sa sayo na lang talaga umiikot buong araw ko.

Tinatamad na ako makipag kita sa mga tropa kase mas masaya ako na ikaw kasama ko. masaya ko sa bonding natin araw araw. pumasok ka nga lang sa school miss na miss na agad kita pag uwi mo eh.

I never imagined, sobrang bilis nang panahon. Ngayon andito ako sa harap mo tinitingnan ka sa huling pag kakataon. Sa huling gabi na makikita kita at makakasama kita. Sobrang sakit sa dibdib love. kase bukas kahit anong gawin ko kahit anong pag mamakaawa ko. kahit sumigaw pa ko nang walang tigil. kahit gano pa kalakas iyak ko wala na. Wala na akong magagawa. Iniisip ko pa lang, hirap na hirap na ako. Sobrang di ako makapaniwala na darating tayo sa gantong sitwasyon.

Naaalala ko pa dati sabi mo pag may nakikita kang namamatayan sinasabi mo “kawawa naman yung naiwan, siguro kung ako di ko kakayanin yun” “ano kayang nararamdaman niya ngayon?” love ngayon alam ko na. sobrang hirap love. Literal na masakit sa puso parang unti unting hinihimay himay ung puso ko. Pero ano pa nga ba choice ko. Gaya nang lagi mo saking payo pag may problema ako. “Pag pray lang natin yan love malakas naman tayo kay god diba? malalagpasan mo yan”.

Walang oras na di ka nawawala sa isip ko. Yung mga memories. Yung boses mo na paulit ulit sa utak ko. “Love!” “I love you love” “I miss you so much!” yung mga tawa mo. Paulit ulit lahat yun sa utak ko. yung mga moments natin. Tama nga sila minsan yung mga masasayang ala-ala ay siya ding pinaka masakit.

Bye for now love! totoo pala talaga ang forever. kase ngayon forever ka nang nasa puso ko. I cant wait to see you again! till next time! I love you so much Love!